You didn’t lose your desire.
You lost access to it.
If you’re a woman over 50 who feels disconnected from your body, your desire, or your aliveness, you are not broken. You’ve been overridden.
Maybe your body doesn’t respond anymore.
Maybe you can’t imagine wanting sex the way you used to.
Maybe you’ve done the therapy, read the books, had the conversations… and still feel numb, shut down, or just… not interested.
This is not about low libido. This is about a nervous system that has been in overdrive for decades.
Are We Gonna Have Sex Or What? is not a book about fixing you.
It’s about bringing you back to life.
Join the VIP Waitlist and get early access, private support, and a front-row seat before the book launches.
This is for the woman who is ready to FEEL again.
3 LIVE Group Coaching Sessions with Dr. Juls
Intimate, small-group coaching to help you understand what’s actually happening in your body, your desire, and your nervous system—and begin shifting it in real time.
Value: $600
VIP Pre-Launch Zoom Party (Live with Dr. Juls)
A private, behind-the-scenes experience where you’ll hear what most women never say out loud, understand why desire changed, and ask your questions live.
Value: $197
Early Access + VIP Launch Bonuses
Be first in line for the book release, additional bonuses, and deeper work before it’s available to the public.
Value: $97
Total Value
$894 in support and access - available only for VIP waitlist members
Your investment today: $0
You don’t need more information.
You need a different experience of your body.
These group coaching spots are intentionally limited to keep the space intimate, honest, and safe.
Once they’re filled, they’re gone.
Part truth-telling.
Part nervous system reset.
This book starts with a question I asked 35 years ago:
“Are we gonna have sex or what?”
What follows is not a “how-to” guide filled with tips and tricks.
It is a real, unfiltered look at what happens to a woman’s desire after decades of being responsible, needed, and “on” for everyone else.
This is about:
The moment you realize something isn’t broken… just missing
The quiet grief of not feeling turned on by your own life anymore
The truth about why desire disappears in long-term relationships and even outside of them
The role your nervous system plays in numbness, shutdown, and disconnection
And the path back, not to who you were, but to who you actually are now
This is the book for the woman who has thought:
“I love my life… but I don’t feel alive in it.”