Welcome Back to Yourself!
Here's How We're Going to Excavate the Woman You Lost.
You just did the "Before I Was a Helper" practice.
That was the first shovel-full of dirt in the excavation.
But we need to go deeper.
Here's what identity erosion actually is:
You've over-functioned for so long that your nervous system has fused two things that should be separate:
YOUR WORTH = YOUR USEFULNESS
That equation is suffocating you.
Neurologically, you're living in what's called "functional freeze."
You go through the motions perfectly.
You look fine on the outside.
You feel absolutely nothing on the inside.
This is your nervous system's way of protecting you from feeling how unhappy you are.
But numbness isn't safety.
It's delayed pain.
And here's what happens if you don't excavate your identity:
You'll reach retirement age and realize you spent 40 years living someone else's life.
I've watched brilliant women stay in this pattern until their bodies force them to stop—through illness, breakdown, or complete shutdown.
Don't let that be you.
THE IDENTITY EXCAVATION WORKBOOK™
Reclaim the Woman You Lost Along the Way
This isn't self-help.
This is archaeology.
We're going back to find the parts of you that got buried—and bringing them into the present so you can be whole again.
WHAT'S INSIDE:
✓ THE COMPLETE "BEFORE I WAS A HELPER" INVENTORY
Guided reflection that takes you back to ages 18, 25, 30—before the job consumed you. Who were you? What did you love? What lit you up? She's still in there. We're going to find her.
✓ THE WORTH VS. USEFULNESS SEPARATION PROTOCOL
The exact exercises that help your nervous system understand: your value as a human ≠ your productivity as a professional. This is where the guilt starts to lift.
✓ DESIRE MAPPING FOR WOMEN WHO FORGOT HOW TO WANT
If someone asked "What do YOU want?"—could you answer? Most women over 50 in helping professions can't. This section teaches you how to reconnect with your own desires (not everyone else's needs).
✓ THE IDENTITY LAYERS FRAMEWORK
You are: a professional AND a woman AND a body AND a soul. This framework helps you separate what you DO from who you ARE—so you can love your work without letting it consume your life.
✓ THE PLEASURE RECLAMATION PRACTICE
When did you last do something purely for pleasure? Not productivity. Not usefulness. Just... because it felt good. This practice gives you permission to feel alive in your body again.
✓ YOUR 90-DAY IDENTITY RESTORATION TIMELINE
Week-by-week action steps to rebuild your sense of self while still honoring your professional commitments. You don't have to quit to find yourself.
✓ THE MIDLIFE IDENTITY SHIFT GUIDE (For Women Over 50)
How perimenopause, menopause, and the hormonal shifts of midlife impact identity—and how to navigate this transition with grace instead of crisis.
WHO THIS IS FOR:
→ Women over 50 in helping professions who've lost themselves
→ You can't answer "What do YOU want?" without freezing
→ Your work has become your entire identity
→ You look in the mirror and don't recognize yourself
→ You're READY to reclaim the woman beneath the helper
INVESTMENT: $27
(Normally $97, discounted for accessibility because I know you've been giving everything away to everyone else—this is your investment in YOU.)
Available for 72 hours. Then returns to $97.
GUARANTEE:
30-DAY MONEY-BACK PROMISE
Do the work in this guide for 3 weeks.
If you don't have more clarity about who you are beyond your job—
If you're not reconnecting with desires, dreams, parts of yourself you thought were gone forever—
Full refund. No questions.
TESTIMONIAL
"I'm 59. I've been a nurse for 26 years. When my daughter asked
'Mom, what do you like to do for fun?'—I had no answer. Everything was about my patients, my hospital, my caseload. This workbook helped me excavate the parts of myself I'd buried. I'm painting again. I'm laughing again. I'm ME again. And I didn't have to quit my job to find her."
— Linda T., ICU Nurse, Ohio
GET THE IDENTITY EXCAVATION WORKBOOK
The woman you were before all this?
She's not gone. She's just buried.
Let's dig her up.
Offer expires in 72 hours.